How do you get people to do what you what to do?…i.e getting the missus to go clubbing?

I love clubbing and been going every friday and sat nights when i am free. Recently i have met a great gal but her relectance to go is annoying me a lot. Any ideas on what i/we do to solve this?

Don’t force her to do anything she doesn’t want to.
Why do you want to make her go clubbing?

How would you like it if she made you go to something that she liked, but you didn’t?

I would try to either make an arrangement to have your own time, when she can do her thing and you can go clubbing, or possibly agree to do her thing if she does yours, but bear in mind my second paragraph.