I am the only son and I’m gay. My parents love me for what I am but I think it is just weird that they wanted to go to the gay club where I always go to. I think I will feel awkward when they’re around and even though they have no problem with gays its still hard for me to be myself. I also do a lot of crazy stuffs when I’m drunk and I dance like crazy and I don’t want them to see that. What should I tell them?
They just want to go because they love you and they want to support you! I think it’s really sweet. Honestly I’m really jealous 
But just explain to them what you told us…I’m sure, even though they don’t want to believe it, that they know you aren’t "innocent". You drink, you get sexual, etcetc. And though they support you, they probably don’t want to really see you acting in a way that would force them to see you aren’t their little boy anymore
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Be blunt with them! It’s a GAY bar and not only would you feel awkward being there with them but THEY would feel awkward there as well not to mention the people around you.
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Just tell them how it is, you’d feel uncomfortable.
Aw but that’s really sweet that they love you enough to go there with you, especially on a holiday.
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Gently tell them there’s a such thing as being too accepting, and that it would be weird. Maybe you guys could go to a nice bar and grill type of place instead.
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Take em. As for your silliness when you are drunk, maybe you would hold back this one time and not get drunk. I took my aunts to a gay bar in SF where I was having a show of my photo work. It was fun! They loved it and it was a one time thing. They got to see my work and see a place where I could be myself. Everyone had fun.
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Well, there are "gay clubs" and there are "gay clubs."
There are often places like a Hamburger Marys… pretty gay in many cities, but not simply a night club. Find a place like that… don’t go to a place where there is only drinks and dancing. Get a little creative here….
Most clubs don’t really get going until 10 or so… or on a Sunday not much at all. Why would they want to go out so late?
Besides, you don’t have to get drunk while there with your parents… right?
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This is perhaps one of the most awkward questions I have ever heard. Please for the love of the Flying Spaghetti Monster don’t take them to a "Gay" club.
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They just want to go because they love you and they want to support you! I think it’s really sweet. Honestly I’m really jealous
But just explain to them what you told us…I’m sure, even though they don’t want to believe it, that they know you aren’t "innocent". You drink, you get sexual, etcetc. And though they support you, they probably don’t want to really see you acting in a way that would force them to see you aren’t their little boy anymore 
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