It’s pretty hard to know people since many don’t like breaking the ice with strangers. Is there a way around this, especially for a guy who isn’t intending to pull?
I know a nightclub may not be the best place to hold a descent length conversation, but it’s a place where many people hang out. If it wasn’t in a nightclub, it would most likely be in a noisy pub anyway, which is pretty much based on the same circumstances.
say hi, ask if yr having a good night and wait for ur response to lead you on to your next question, always take an interest in the person u r talkin to dont talk about yourself its very boring and off putting to a girl, make it at the beginning of your evening or people will be too drunk and u want them to remember u and to hold a conversation x good luck!!
There are none in nightclubs.
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say hi, ask if yr having a good night and wait for ur response to lead you on to your next question, always take an interest in the person u r talkin to dont talk about yourself its very boring and off putting to a girl, make it at the beginning of your evening or people will be too drunk and u want them to remember u and to hold a conversation x good luck!!
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Its hard to talk to people in nightclubs either the music is so loud you can hardly hear each other or everybody is either really pissed or druged up and just wants to dance.If you want to score with the lady’s then i suggest you just get really pissed and just grab hold of one and throw the lips on her,dont worry been there done that many times and it works most of the time if they are single.You may need to ask if they are single before you kiss her
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<Throws myself on the floor to block your path into the nightclub> Noooo!! Don’t do it!!! lol
If it makes you more comfortable to meet people with alcohol involved, then go to a local pub. (Make certain you take a cab or have a designated driver).
Don’t laugh, but this works wonders. Get a game. Scruples is my favorite. A game that allows players to ask questions or guess answers. Don’t use a board, or scoring or anything like that. I used to do this in my drinking days. I would start off sitting at the bar and asking the people on either side of me a question. Before I knew it the whole entire bar was in on the game. It caught on so well, that local pubs in the area kept games behind the bar. It’s kind of like trivia night at Applebees.
You learn a lot about people, it instantly breaks the ice and you make a lot of friends. Try it!
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write out what you want to say on bits of white card.
it saves your voice from having to shout to be heard.
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